Sadhguru: If parents are truly concerned about their children, they must raise their children in such a way that the child will never have any need for the parent. The process of loving should always be liberating, not entangling. So when your children are born, allow them to look around, to spend time with nature and by themselves. Create an atmosphere of love and support. Allow them to grow, allow their intelligence to grow and help them look at life on their own terms, as human beings – not identified with the family, wealth, or anything else. Just helping them to look at life as human beings is very essential for their well-being and also that of the world.
Sadhguru（薩古魯）：如果父母們真的關(guān)心他們的孩子，那么養(yǎng)育他們的方式應(yīng)該是讓他們永遠(yuǎn)都不需要父母。愛的過程應(yīng)當(dāng)總是給對方帶來解放，而不是增加糾纏。所以當(dāng)你的孩子出生了，讓他們?nèi)ニ奶幙纯矗〞r間與大自然相處以及獨(dú)處。創(chuàng)造一個愛與支持的氛圍。讓他們成長，讓他們的智力成長并幫助他們以他們自己的角度看待生命，以人的身份——而非著眼在家世、財富或任何其它東西之上。僅僅幫助他們以人類的身份去看待生命，對他們的幸福和世界的幸福來說都是至關(guān)重要的。

Your home should not be a place for you to impose your culture, ideas and morals upon your children. It should instead be a supportive atmosphere. If children feel most comfortable at home, they will naturally try to spend more time there than outside. Right now, a street corner may feel like a more comfortable place for them than being at home because of the impositions they face. So, if that discomfort is absent, they will not make the street corner a sanctuary. This does not mean that they are not going to be exposed to the hard realities of the world. They will be, and these realities will influence your children in some way or the other. But always, parents encouraging their children to think for themselves, to use their own intelligence to see what is best, are the greatest insurance for a child to grow up well.
你的家不應(yīng)成為你將你的文化、想法和道德強(qiáng)加給你孩子的地方。它應(yīng)該是一個充滿支持的氛圍。如果孩子在家里感到最舒適，他們自然想要在那里度過比在外面更多的時光?，F(xiàn)在，因為他們所面對的強(qiáng)迫，比起在家，街角可能是讓他們感覺更舒適的地方。所以，如果沒有那種不舒適，他們不會把街角當(dāng)成庇護(hù)所。這不意味著他們不會暴露在世界的殘酷現(xiàn)實中。他們會，這些現(xiàn)實會這樣那樣地影響你的孩子。但父母鼓勵孩子獨(dú)立思考，用他們自己的智慧去看什么是最好的，這永遠(yuǎn)是一個孩子好好成長的最佳保障。

Most adults assume that as soon as a child is born, it is time to become teachers. When a child enters your house, it is not the time to become a teacher; it is time to learn, because if you look at yourself and your child, your child is more joyous, isn’t it? You lived like a zombie before this little bundle of joy entered your life. Now, unknowingly, you have started laughing and singing, you crawl under the sofa along with the child. Life is happening because of them, not because of you. The only thing that you can teach your child – which you have to, to some extent – is how to survive. But a child knows more about life itself, experientially. An adult is capable of all kinds of suffering – imagined suffering. A child has still not gone to that. So it is time you learn life from them, not the other way around.
大多數(shù)成年人認(rèn)為孩子一出生，自己就該為人師表了。當(dāng)一個孩子來到你家時，這不是成為老師的時候，而是向他學(xué)習(xí)的時候，因為如果你看看你自己和你的孩子，你的孩子更快樂，是不是？在這團(tuán)小開心進(jìn)入你生命之前，你活得像一具行尸走肉?，F(xiàn)在，不知不覺地，你開始笑，開始唱，開始跟著孩子在沙發(fā)底下爬。生命因他們而發(fā)生著，而不是因為你。唯一你能夠教給孩子的——在一定程度上也是你必須要教的——是如何生存。但在體驗層面上，一個孩子對生命本身知道得更多。成年人可以以各種各樣的方式受苦——想象出來的苦。而孩子則尚未走到那一步。所以是你從他們那里了解生命的時候了，而不是反過來。 

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isha.sadhguru.org/global/en/wisdom/article/love-your-kids-liberate-them