與其花時間應付不理想的生活,不如花時間造就你想要的生活。善良的人,總覺得拒絕別人像是自己做錯了事;可有些人,你幫她七分,她反倒覺得你欠她三分。 Instead of spending time dealing with an unsatisfactory life, take time to make the life you want. Kind people always feel like they have done something wrong by refusing others, but some people think you owe her three points when you help her seven points. 我就這么一顆心,你省著點玩,悠著點傷。這個世界缺的不是完美的人,而是從心底給出的真心,正義,無畏與同情。你一定有過這樣的時候吧,想要傾訴,卻發(fā)現(xiàn)身邊無人,所以,你習慣了孤獨,學會了堅強。 I have such a heart, you save a little play, leisurely injury. The world lacks not perfect people, but sincere, just, fearless and compassion from the bottom of the heart. You must have had such a time, want to talk, but found no one around, so you are used to loneliness, learned to be strong. 愿你自律。時機和運氣永遠只是一時的。想要有所成就,真正靠得住的,只有自律、堅持和勤勉。管不住自己的嘴,別指望瘦;管不住自己的手機,別指望效率;管不住自己的時間,時間只能無情地忘記你。 May you be self-disciplined. Timing and luck are always temporary. Self-discipline, perseverance and diligence are the only reliable ways to achieve something. If you can't control your mouth, don't expect to be thin; if you can't control your mobile phone, don't expect efficiency; if you can't control your time, time can only forget you mercilessly. 千萬不要把自己的軟弱展現(xiàn)給別人看,千萬不要把自己的狼狽述說給別人聽。因為根本沒有人會覺得你很可憐,只會覺得你很沒用。有些路,只能一個人走,路上的艱辛,只有自己知道。 Never show your weakness to others. Never tell others about your woes. Because no one will think you are pitiful at all, only that you are useless. Some roads can only be traveled by one person. The hardships on the road are only known to oneself. 理解生命就是一個過客,聚散離合一場經(jīng)過,承擔著一場悲歡交錯,但并不意味著生命就是一場被動,人世間的紛繁和復雜,恰恰需要我們內(nèi)心的一種平淡與柔和,更不能把命運活成一場悲情,既然是那些平常的日子,那首先要活成一場平安,淡然,自然。 Understanding that life is a passer-by, gathering and splitting a process, undertaking a crisscross of joys and sorrows, does not mean that life is passive, the complexity and complexity of the world, just need a kind of plain and gentle in our hearts, not to live a sad fate, since it is those ordinary days, it is first to live a peaceful, indifferent, natural. 多想挽留住那段美好的歲月,留住那段屬于你和我的時光。想要伸手去觸碰那個有你的夢,卻如同泡沫般一碰就碎,那碎裂的瞬間在光陰里格外的絢爛。 I want to retain that beautiful time, that time belongs to you and me. Want to reach out to touch that dream with you, but like a bubble crash, the broken moment in the time is particularly gorgeous. 人的一生,本就是一個認識人的過程。有的人起始于相逢,終止于相處;有的人曾經(jīng)入了眼,如今離了心。生活會給你糖果,也會給你傷疤,到后來那些傷口褪去軟弱,一定會成為你身上最百毒不侵的地方。 A person's life is a process of knowing people. Some people start from meeting and end from getting along with each other; some people have been in the eye, but now they are out of the heart. Life will give you candy and scars, and then those wounds will fade away and become the most poisonous place on your body. 有時,堅強的內(nèi)心,往往會被一句簡單的安慰打敗,然后淚流滿面?;蛟S每個人的心里都有一個不可能的人,你不敢再去打擾,你故作瀟灑地按下刪除鍵,卻沒有人知道,你究竟用了多大的勇氣。 Sometimes, a strong heart is often defeated by a simple comfort, and then tears flow down its face. Perhaps everyone has an impossible person in his heart, you dare not disturb, you pretend to press the delete key smartly, but no one knows how much courage you have used. 當時年少,從來不覺得和她是一路人,大概是平行線吧??墒悄涿畹木褪怯辛私患缓竺\就這么不可逆轉的向前了。我開始變得可靠,隱忍得不像自己,這就是所謂的為愛改變吧。 When I was young, I never thought I was with her. It was probably parallel. But somehow there is intersection, and then fate is so irreversible forward. I began to become reliable and intolerant, which is what is called change for love. 心里踏實了,腳下的路才能走得安穩(wěn)。幸福的時刻,就要開心;等待幸福的時候,就要耐心??创┑徽f穿,很多事情,只要自己心里有數(shù)就好了。好多時候,是我們自己想太多,才會讓自己如此難受。 Only when you have a firm mind can you walk steadily. When you are happy, be happy; when you are waiting for happiness, be patient. See through but don't say through, many things, as long as you have a few in mind. Many times, it is because we think too much about ourselves that we can make ourselves so miserable. 世界上最殘忍的事,不是沒遇到愛的人,而是遇到卻最終錯過;世界上最傷心的事,不是你愛的人不愛你,而是他愛過你后,最后卻不愛你。 The cruelest thing in the world is not that you don't meet the person you love, but that you meet and eventually miss it. The saddest thing in the world is not that the person you love doesn't love you, but that he doesn't love you after he loves you. When the weather is clear, you can feel the height of the mountains, the floating clouds and the white snow. Clouds are connected with the sea and air, the wind is accompanied by tides, falling trees and mountains are vast. Sometimes snow is scattered. More white is hidden in higher mountains and deeper pine forests. So I like to pace alone and calmly, while the cold wind is blowing on my face. When you are alone, you will always be there. |
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