All our technological advancements have been achieved by nerds, so we have a ways to go before robots know how to talk to girls. Being romantic in any situation is easy. It takes comfort in your own skin, a lot of inner confidence, and a smile. Beyond that, everything else is easy. So how do you achieve all that with a girl?

實現(xiàn)我們所有科技進步的是計算機書呆子們，所以在機器人知道該如何跟女孩聊天之前，我們還有很長一段路要走。做一個浪漫的人并不難，只需要你自己表現(xiàn)自然，內(nèi)在充滿自信，還有一個微笑。除此之外，其他事情都很簡單。那么你該如何在和女孩交往時做到這些呢？

1. Prepare in Advance

提前準(zhǔn)備

Everything in life is easier when you’re prepared. No matter how smart you are, preparation is indispensable. Sure Jackie Chan can make do with whatever he has available, but it’s nice to have an Arnold or Brad Pitt level of gear stored up. Be prepared for any situation you leave the house for. This doesn’t mean to carry a gear bag with you. It means any time you go out, prepare for those situations. Meeting a broad at the supermarket can happen if you time it right and have the right grocery list.

如果你有所準(zhǔn)備，生活中所有的事情都會簡單許多。不管你有多聰明，準(zhǔn)備都是絕對必要的。當(dāng)然，成龍拿起手邊的任何東西都可以應(yīng)付對手，但最好還是準(zhǔn)備好像施瓦辛格和布拉德·皮特這種級別的。出發(fā)時為各種場合做好準(zhǔn)備。這并不是說要你帶一個裝備袋，而是說只要你出門，就要為所有情形做好準(zhǔn)備。在超市里有段艷遇是完全可能的，如果你的時機正確，而且準(zhǔn)備對了購物清單。

2. Read and Study

閱讀學(xué)習(xí)

The only way to be confident in any situation is by having things to talk about no matter what happens. Going out, and reading (even internet research when done correctly) will broaden your horizons and give you a variety of subjects to talk about. Keep up on the news, sports, and have a background in a few things. Be honest when you don’t know what you’re talking about. Trust is important to build romance.

在任何情況下都能保持自信的唯一方法，就是不論發(fā)生什么，都有內(nèi)容可以侃侃而談。出去走走，或者閱讀（方法得當(dāng)?shù)脑捑W(wǎng)上閱讀也可以）都可以開闊你的視野，讓你有許多可以談?wù)摰膬?nèi)容。對新聞和體育保持關(guān)注，多了解一些事情的背景。當(dāng)你不清楚在談?wù)撌裁吹臅r候，要誠實。信任對于建立浪漫很重要。

3. Be Open and Honest

心胸開闊、誠實

As long as you’re always honest, you’ll always be open. When you’re open, you’ll attract the right people into your life at the right times. You never know who will be in the same mood as you and where romance will come from, so as long as you’re open and honest with everyone you talk to, you’ll always remain open for romance.

只要你是個誠實的人，你就會心胸開闊。當(dāng)你心胸開闊的時候，你就會在對的時間吸引對的人進入那你的生活。你永遠不會知道誰會和你有同樣的心情，浪漫會從哪里發(fā)生。所以只要你對每個人保持心胸開闊和誠實，浪漫之門就一直為你敞開。

4. Learn to Love Yourself

學(xué)會愛自己

If you love yourself, you’ll be the type of person who draws people to you. This means you’re more attractive. By being more attractive, you’re more likely to realize your attraction and act more attractive. This increases your odds of romance spurring up at any moment, no matter what your life is like.

如果你愛自己，你就是那種可以把人們吸引到你身邊來的類型。這意味著你更有吸引力，這樣一來你更有可能意識到自己的吸引力，而且變得更有吸引力。這會增加各種時刻浪漫發(fā)生的幾率，不論你的生活怎樣。

5. Be Discreet

謹慎小心

If you’re in a marriage or relationship, don’t rub it in everyone’s face. Be polite and honest when asked, and respect the boundaries of the relationship. Other than that, act normal in public. Your significant other will be more likely to get freaky when they’re comfortable. You’ll also attract other women you can either store for later if your relationship isn’t serious or use to get ahead in life, your career, etc. It’s always nice to have attractive friends to keep things interesting. Just make sure you can look yourself in the mirror.

如果你已經(jīng)結(jié)婚或者正在戀愛，不要見人就秀幸福。被問起時禮貌誠實地回答，并且尊重這段關(guān)系的界線。此外，在公眾場合表現(xiàn)地自然一些。當(dāng)你的另一半感覺舒服時更有可能變得浪漫。如果你的關(guān)系不夠認真或者和你的生活、事業(yè)發(fā)生沖突，你也可以吸引其他女孩留著以后交往。有一些有吸引力的朋友讓生活更有趣總是好的。只是確保你要認清鏡中的自己。

6. Surprise People

給他人驚喜

Everyone loves to be surprised in the right ways. Find ways to ignite a spark in the room. Keep some good dark chocolate on you at all times. If you know how to make some small craft, keep a few in a drawer in your room. If you’re not crafty, keep some cheap but tasteful jewelry in some luggage. Either way, always have something on hand to pull out spur of the moment to surprise your woman. Chicks dig surprises.

每個人都喜歡收到驚喜，只要方式正確。想辦法在房間內(nèi)點亮火花。隨身攜帶一些優(yōu)質(zhì)的黑巧克力。如果你知道如何制作一些小玩意，在房間的抽屜里放一些。如果你不擅長手工，準(zhǔn)備一些便宜但有品位的珠寶。不管是哪種方法，在手邊準(zhǔn)備一些東西，隨時給你的另一半一個驚喜，女孩們都愛發(fā)掘驚喜。

7. Be Happy and Assertive

快樂自信

As long as you’re smiling and assertive (without being bossy), you will be in control of your life. When you’re in control of your life, you’re able to assertively get whatever you want. If you want romance, go out and create it. Life is yours for the taking.

只要你保持微笑并且自信（不是專橫獨斷），你就會主宰你自己的生活。只要你能主宰你自己的生活，那你就肯定可以得到你想要的。如果你渴望浪漫，那就走出去，制造浪漫。生活掌握在你手中。