男人為什么要欺騙和撒謊？

It becomes seemingly impossible for women to figure out why do men cheat and lie. In fact, nobody has exact answers behind the psyche of men and why do they cheat. Still, some very evident reasons as why men cheat have been mentioned here.

女人似乎無(wú)法指出男人為什么要欺騙和撒謊。事實(shí)上，他們?yōu)槭裁匆垓_，除了這個(gè)男人自己知道，沒(méi)人可以給出準(zhǔn)確的答案。然而，在這我們就給出了男人欺騙女人的幾個(gè)明顯的原因。

Marriages are failing miserably in the western countries. Going through shocking infidelity statistics and divorce statistics will reveal that divorce is now becoming more common than marriage. Relationship issues have compounded as divorce and infidelity share a deep interconnection. Women are unable to understand why do men cheat and lie, even when they're trying to give their best. It seems cheating is deeply engraved in their DNAs. Is it really so?

非常不幸，西方國(guó)家的婚姻率越來(lái)越高。通過(guò)對(duì)無(wú)宗教信仰的統(tǒng)計(jì)和離婚統(tǒng)計(jì)，令人震驚的發(fā)現(xiàn)了離婚現(xiàn)在變得比結(jié)婚更加普遍。隨著離婚和無(wú)信仰之間越來(lái)越深的關(guān)聯(lián)，關(guān)系問(wèn)題就形成了。女人們不能理解男人們?yōu)槭裁匆垓_她們、對(duì)她們?nèi)鲋e，甚至是當(dāng)他們正努力的去給她們最好的的時(shí)候。似乎欺騙深深地印刻在了他們的DNA里。真的是那樣么？

Well, before I demystify various reasons as why men cheat in relationships, let me be very clear about this. Cheating is not a gender based phenomena and just like women wish to know why do men cheat, there are many men who wish to know the answer to the question, why do women cheat.

那么，在我闡述各種各樣的關(guān)于男人為什么在人際關(guān)系中喜歡欺騙的原因之前，讓我來(lái)把這個(gè)問(wèn)題分析得更加透徹一些。欺騙并不是依據(jù)現(xiàn)象而只針對(duì)某個(gè)性別，就像女人想知道男人為什么欺騙一樣，有很多男人也想知道這個(gè)問(wèn)題的答案，女人為什么要欺騙。

Just like there has been a Casanova, there has also been a Cleopatra. In fact, the main issue is that cheating in relationships has become a reality of 21st century and it true for both - females and males. When material fulfillment and communication is best in the 21st century, what makes people cheat? Certainly, we all wish God would some day come down to explain this million dollar question. In this article, however, my sole objective is to zero in on some reasons why men cheat.

就好比有了卡薩諾瓦，就有克利歐佩特拉一樣。事實(shí)上，主要的問(wèn)題是人際關(guān)系當(dāng)中欺騙已經(jīng)成為21世紀(jì)的現(xiàn)實(shí)，同時(shí)對(duì)于男性和女性這都是事實(shí)。當(dāng)21世紀(jì)擁有了物質(zhì)的滿足感和最好的交流的時(shí)候，我們唯一的目標(biāo)就是對(duì)準(zhǔn)男人欺騙女人的原因。

Why do Men Cheat and Lie

 男人為什么要欺騙和撒謊？

Hundreds of thousands of psychologists have researched about why do men cheat and lie and still they haven't given any concrete answers. I'm saying you that there are no concrete answers. It all depends on so many factors that it is not a cake walk to arrive at some fixed parameters as why do men cheat and lie.

成千上萬(wàn)的心理學(xué)家對(duì)男人為什么要欺騙和撒謊做了研究，然而他們還沒(méi)有給出任何具體的答復(fù)。我要告訴你的是，沒(méi)有具體的答案。男人為什么要欺騙和撒謊取決于很多因素，導(dǎo)致了很多混合的參數(shù)。

Emotional Affinity Tending to Zero

 情感的密切關(guān)系趨于零

First few years of marriage are beautiful as it is seen from experiences of many couples but as complacency steps in, the relationship become dull and dry. Physical or emotional intimacy remains no more a priority for either of the partners and there is a numbness in the relationship and communication. Late working hours and extensive business tours become a reality. Lack of emotional connectivity hence brings drastic changes in the life of the married men. He wants a bit of pampering and love but not finding it in his wife, he turns to external sources. Consequently, he lies about his meetings and business tours and here steps in emotional cheating. As time passes, extra marital affairs pop up and women have only one question then, why do married men cheat?

從很多夫妻的身上我們都可以看到婚姻的頭幾年是很美妙的，但是隨著出現(xiàn)了滿足感，婚姻關(guān)系開始變得枯燥乏味。身體和心靈上的親密度對(duì)于夫妻中任何一方都不再有優(yōu)先權(quán)了，夫妻關(guān)系和交流上開始變得麻木。長(zhǎng)時(shí)間的工作和大量的出差成為了現(xiàn)實(shí)。感情上缺乏溝通最終導(dǎo)致了已婚男人生活上的猛烈變化。他想要點(diǎn)縱容和關(guān)愛但是卻在妻子身上找不到，于是他轉(zhuǎn)向了別處。因此他撒謊說(shuō)他開會(huì)，說(shuō)他出差了，這樣就導(dǎo)致了情感上的欺騙。隨著時(shí)間的流逝，外遇就出現(xiàn)了，隨后女人們就只有一個(gè)問(wèn)題，已婚男人為什么要欺騙她們？

This is Me; The Casanova Guy

這就是我；卡薩諾瓦男人

Some men simply don't have the courage to carry a relationship forward and they just get married either because of sexual inclination or due to some other reasons. They're least bothered about any emotional commitments and so for them, cheating is not a big deal. They love the race, the amazing thrill to chase girls, get hooked and then again look for someone else. The excitement of getting in a new relationship successively is also one of the reasons why men cheat on women. I'm sorry for such men because they really don't have anything in their mind except a distorted idea about relationships.

有的男人僅僅沒(méi)有勇氣去承擔(dān)婚姻的前進(jìn)，他們結(jié)婚只是因?yàn)樾孕枰蛘呤且驗(yàn)橐恍┢渌脑?。他們很少因?yàn)榍楦猩系某兄Z而煩惱，因此對(duì)于他們來(lái)說(shuō)，欺騙沒(méi)什么大不了的。他們喜歡競(jìng)賽，追逐女孩子讓他們感到出奇的興奮，鉤到以后再去尋找其他人。成功的得到一段新的感情上的這種刺激也是男人欺騙女人的一個(gè)原因。對(duì)于這種男人我覺(jué)得很悲哀，因?yàn)槌藢?duì)于兩性關(guān)系的一種扭曲想法外，在他們的思想里真的沒(méi)有別的了。

Physical Intimacy Negligible

微不足道的身體親密

Why do men cheat on their wives? Is it due to sexual dissatisfaction? Generally, this is believed to be the top most reason for infidelity. However, Men, hailed to be sexual predators, surprisingly don't cheat majorly owing to sex. They're more inclined to get involved with other women due to a disinterested partner. So here is another prominent reason why do men cheat and lie.

男人們?yōu)槭裁匆垓_他們的妻子呢？是因?yàn)樾詯鄣牟粷M么？一般來(lái)說(shuō)，這對(duì)于無(wú)信仰的人是最重要的原因。然而，男人們歡呼要成為性捕食者，令人驚訝的是，主要是性方面原因的都不存在欺騙。由于有一個(gè)無(wú)私的伙伴，他們更傾向于占有其他的女人。因此這是一個(gè)更突出的男人為什么要撒謊的原因。

I Got Weak in the Heat of the Moment

在最激烈的時(shí)刻我變軟弱了

Phew.. I don't know how smart this reason sounds but it is certainly a possible reason for why men cheat and lie. The temptation of getting allured by some sexy diva is something that can force the macho species kneel down on their knees and eventually surrender. So, you can say that accidentally, some men cheat (quite a dangerous accident though!). Hopefully, you're getting something on why do men cheat on their girlfriends?

啊。。。我不知道這個(gè)原因聽起來(lái)會(huì)是多么的精明但是它一定是男人欺騙和說(shuō)謊的一個(gè)可能的原因。一些性感的女人能夠引誘男人，這種引誘可以讓男人們跪在她們面前，甚至是屈服。所以你可以說(shuō)，意外地一些男人欺騙女人（雖然這是非常危險(xiǎn)的意外）。希望如此，你就會(huì)知道為什么男人們欺騙他們的女朋友了?

OK. These reasons are just some of the main causes of why do men lie to women or why do men cheat and lie. Believe me, some sort of communication gap and emotional instability is often the main reason behind cheating, be it from a male or from a female.

好吧。這些原因就是男人對(duì)女人撒謊或者男人欺騙撒謊的主要原因了。相信我，某種溝通的隔閡還有情感不穩(wěn)定都是男人或者女人欺騙背后的主要原因。

Men who cheat intentionally must not be forgiven as your forgiveness can always be taken for granted. Even if you do forgive, things may not remain the same. I fail to understand that some men want both; they want to get married and they even want to live like a bachelor with all hook ups and freedom. Certainly, this is a wrong concept about relationships and such men are caught badly between love, lust and relationship. Although, there is no magic wand on how to keep your man from cheating, many men do respond to love, care and concern. So, why do men cheat and lie? Well, you have the answer now. So, ensure that you're doing your best and if he is really not understanding your love and sacrifices, call it quits. You deserve much better in life than a cheating man!

不要原諒那些故意欺騙女人的男人們，因?yàn)槟愕脑徔偸菚?huì)被認(rèn)為是理所當(dāng)然的。即使你原諒了他，事情也變得不同了。我不明白那些想兩個(gè)都要的男人們；他們想要結(jié)婚，他們還想要像單身漢一樣自由的生活鉤住所有的女人。當(dāng)然，這是兩性關(guān)系中錯(cuò)誤的觀念，這種男人在愛情、性愛和人際之間都會(huì)被抓到的。雖然沒(méi)有魔棒可以讓你的男人不再欺騙你，但是一些男人還是會(huì)愛你、關(guān)心你、體貼你的。因此男人為什么要說(shuō)謊話？好吧，你現(xiàn)在有答案了。那么，確定一下你現(xiàn)在盡力去做了，如果他真的不明白你對(duì)他的愛和犧牲，那么結(jié)束這段關(guān)系吧。沒(méi)有一個(gè)欺騙你的男人你會(huì)過(guò)得更好。